Andre is an American living in Warsaw, Poland. He works as a dating coach and consultant, and has lived in Europe for the past five years. His countries of seduction expertise include Poland, Czech Republic, Slovakia, Lithuania, Latvia, and Estonia.
Having worked in the Polish Brides industry for over four years now, I’m more than ready to dispel some common myths and set the record straight about how to succeed in finding your own Polish bride (without getting scammed).
Let’s begin by taking a look at what typical foreign bride services promise their customers:
- Large selection of beautiful young women
- Private social events where customers meet the girls
- Help with travel arrangements and translation services
- Pre-qualification and screening of potential brides
Beyond the above list, it’s all fluff. Take it from someone in the business. Every
foreign bride service in the world claims to have the most beautiful women, excellent rates of successful marriages, while complaints or bad reviews seem to be non-existent. Take it from an industry insider; there are many more unsatisfied customers than there are satisfied ones! The money in the industry is enough to draw the most unscrupulous characters into the mix, and “agencies” have sprung up overnight to cash in.
In comparison to the above list, let’s take a look at what a western tourist naturally finds when visiting Poland:
- Large selection of beautiful young women
- Public social events where gorgeous girls are plentiful
- Freedom to change venues and women at one’s will
- Added self respect - a tourist trumps a “sex tourist” in every girl’s mind!
Let’s face it, there is something not so glamorous in paying an arm and a leg to be set up with a foreign girl. For the most part, foreign brides tend to be both well educated
and street smart. They know that you’ve paid a great deal of money and trouble to meet them….what kind of dynamic does this start off the relationship with? Hardly a natural and romantic beginning! Believe me, even though you’ll never hear the girls describe you to your face as “desperate”, I’ve heard plenty of them talk about this after these social events take place.
There is a place in today’s marketplace for foreign bride services, and some very reputable ones exist all over eastern europe and Russia. But a far better alternative exists…doing it on your own! I know, there is something so much more comfortable about having everything arranged for you. Like an all-inclusive resort, these agencies will do it all for you these days, from booking your flight to scheduling each day’s itinerary. But this isn’t a tropical vacation we’re talking about, fellas, this is a marriage!
I’ve been consulting foreign would-be grooms for four years now in the Polish market, mostly American, Canadian, British, and German guys. Let me tell you what I tell them every time (without charging you my consulting fee!). First off, much of the sales pitch from the agencies is accurate. The women in this part of the world are gorgeous, well-educated, and make most excellent wives. The thing is though, the agency doesn’t own these girls! Seriously, take a walk down any street in this part of the world and you’ll see the reality….these girls are all around you! And they are simply yours for the taking.
A far better alternative to using a Polish bride agency, is to simply take a holiday, and naturally meet the women, in social environments. Believe me, it’s a lot easier here to
just “mingle” with the ladies than it is in the west. I’ve made believers out of all my clients. I simply go over a natural approach with them that they feel comfortable with (such as The Perfect Approach for Foreigners in the Seduction Bible) - once they’re comfortable, they float around meeting girls, collecting phone numbers, and arranging hot dates…..almost without fail! I’ve seen many guys over 60 pick up the most beautiful 20-somethings you could imagine.
Although it might sound “too easy” to be true, I assure you it isn’t. I don’t always turn men away from the Polish bride services, but in 99% of cases I teach them in 15 minutes how to do it themselves. Let’s look at just some of the advantages of doing it yourself:
- Save thousands of dollars on agency fees
- Meet girls naturally - and begin a partnership instead of a customer/client relationship
- Operate on your own schedule & tastes…no mandatory scheduled events
- Learn skills you can use anywhere - try czech republic or slovakia with the same approach!
The bottom line is, we’re not talking about rocket science here. Why pay an agency tons of money, just to introduce you to a girl you could’ve met at the Warsaw airport 5 minutes after landing? Do yourself a favor - learn to meet these women naturally. Not only will you meet better women (prettier & not gold diggers like so many in the agencies), you’ll be able to travel the countries of Eastern Europe freely & meet beautiful women everywhere you turn. Believe me, the women around here WANT to meet you. They just respect you a lot more when you don’t pay 6 months of local salary for a simple introduction to them. Can you blame them?
Cheers,
Andre